What Is Queening and Have You Tried It?

If you're getting bored with regular oral sex or 69, you may be interested in Queening. For those who aren't in a female-led relationship, Queening is a sex act where women essentially sit on a man's face so that he can provide oral pleasure. The position is called Queening because it resembles royalty taking their throne.

In the BDSM world, Queening is quite popular with Dominant women and the submissive men who love them. Women straddle the faces of their lovers who serve them in a worship-like manner, and men love the idea of being slightly suffocated by their Queen's scent and body. The act is both sensual and dominating for the woman and a sign of service for the man.

To further the experience, Queens can wear royal costumes and talk to their lovers like they are servants. In this type of role play, Dommes can refer to themselves as "Her Majesty," "Her Royal Highness," "Queen," "Princess," or just regular oldie but goodie "Mistress." Subs in this scene can be called "servant," "slave," or other variations of theme. 

Urban Dictionary said that Queening is "an ancient art in which a woman presses and rubs her genitalia and/or anus against the tongue, lips, and nose of her subordinate. She classically positions herself in a sitting on or straddling over another's face. The first images of this can be seen in ancient Egyptian drawings, but it is known to have been a historic part of ancient Japanese, Chinese, Indian, Medieval European, Victorian and other cultures."

“It was usually the job of male slaves and servants to submit to their mistresses desires, in Japan there were even brothels where women and girls would pay for male slaves specially trained in the art of queening."